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    Here is the thing. I am 46. Many here are older than that. I messed up exactly as you are wanting to and I regret it.

    I bought a house for too much at the wrong time with nothing down after finishing fellowhip. I had 300k of debt, no down payment and i was starting a new job.

    I made the same mistake you are about to make.

    It was foolish of me and i deeply regret it.

    A resident asks: “ is that the right blood vessel to stick? “

    When you talk to a resident about to stick the carotid while attempting a central line do you tell them or just let them poke away? Do you say it firmly?

    You asked if you should poke the carotid with a big needle…….the answer is nope, bad idea.

    go to http://www.futureme.org and send yourself an email that will arrive in the future, say 8 years from now.

    In 8 years see if we were trying to be nasty or just trying to help.

    How did my home turn out? Sold 10 years later for a loss of 200k. Left my first job because it was crap after two years. Was a long distance land lord……tenants tore up house…….house did not appreciate as i hoped, money pit + time sink + stress + huge loss when sold 10 years later. I know, sounds impossible to you. Me too.

    I hate being wrong .

    like everyone i am a stubborn, overconfident, flawed, pattern seeking primate and i would also have been annoyed by this forum back when i made that ridiculous purchase.

    Don’t stick that. It is arterial.

    Rent yourself a really nice place. You deserve to live in a nice place.
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    • #92




      Don’t stick that. It is arterial.


      Steal worthy pearl.   Saving for future use.  Thank you!

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      • #93
        Agreed.  Great analogy Tangler.  Do not stick the carotid.  Most of us older posters have made mistakes and we are trying to keep you young docs from making the same ones.

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        • #94
          Attitude reeks from OP(s). Good luck to them with their soon-to-be 1.5 million dollar debt...

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          • #95




            Attitude reeks from OP(s). Good luck to them with their soon-to-be 1.5 million dollar debt…
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            I wasn't any different. I am no better. Docs (myself included) are by nature driven, persistent and often overconfident. It is what we think we know already that often prevents us from learning. I honestly think they will get a lot out of this thread. They had the courage to ask the question. They got an answer they did not want, and did not agree with, plus a touch of shaming from our tribe, which always annoys smart folks. Being wrong sucks. But being wrong is very useful. Don't get discouraged OP. Smart folks learn from mistakes, brilliant people learn from other people's mistakes.

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            • #96
              Closing this thread. Based on the number of emails I'm getting about it, it's generating more heat than light. Can't say I've read the whole thing but it sounds like the OP(s) got the assistance they were looking for.
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